Parenthood, All Your Dream Jobs In One!
I originally wrote this back in 2009, after the birth of my first child. As I heard people gripe and gush (one, the other, or both) about being a parent and the responsibilities that came with it, I thought, “It’s like we’re doing a million jobs at once”. Tada! This post was born (no pun intended). Looking back at it, I find it hilarious and still very true. It was a bit outdated in terms of some of the references but I’ve tweaked it to fit the times. I hope you enjoy it!
1) Pediatrician- Milicon for gas…Tylenol for fever…
2) Biochemist- Exploring the many compositions and mysteries associated with your child’s bodily fluids. “What color is that…what did he/she eat? I need to examine this…”
3) Fashion Designer- Come on, I mean who rocks the tired and worn look like a parent? Stained, wrinkled clothing, bags under your eyes instead of on your arms. Who do you think inspired Kanye West’s clothing line? Yep, new parents. With all that going on you still look like you’re ready to take on the day and anyone who gets in your way. Let’s not forget your children- “Okay, red bib…now your shoes…ummm…does this onesie still fit? Children’s Place or Old Navy?”
4) Bartender- No one can make and shake a bottle at 3am like a parent. You’re literally popping bottles!
5) Chef- Your sandwich making skills are truly the best bar none. You’d give Gordon Ramsey a run for his money.
6) Hairdresser- It takes skill to overcome the mess of a head that you “wake up” with! A little pull here, a tug there, brush, spray, comb, repeat, repeat again, okay it’s not cooperating…crap, forget it! New style, yeah, it’s a new style. Just go with it..really, go before you change your mind. You don’t have all day!
7) Comedian- Humor comes naturally when your audience is children that find everything funny.
8) Choreographer/Dancer- You know that silly little dance you do for/with your kid? Yep, you’re a natural…now, just don’t get carried away. The next thing you know you’ll have an unexpected audience because you’ll forget you’re in the middle of a store.
9) Singer- Your rendition of itsy bitsy spider could possibly get you a spot on American Idol…you know when they show the first episodes? The audition tapes, yeah, you have the potential to embarrass yourself in front of the world, but at least your kid doesn’t know what bad sounds like yet.
10) Engineer- Anyone who can figure out all the toys, gizmos, and gadgets that kids have now in days deserve this title. Even diapers can be complicated for the inexperienced.
11) Actress- You have the best character impressions. You do a heart-wrenching performance of Caillou (why is that kid so depressed?). Your Dora The Explorer is absolutely riveting! You definitely deserve an Oscar…or would it be an Elmo?
12) Celebrity- Any time you enter the room your kids freak out like a groupie at a Beyonce or Beiber concert. Put on your shades, call off the paparazzi, you are a true star in your children’s eyes…minus the money, the bodyguards, the extremely lavish lifestyle…but I digress.
All jokes aside, parenting really is a career all its own. No one else works harder and gets greater rewards. Enjoy every moment, even when they’re screaming their head off for some totally unwarranted reason. The truth is that when they become independent, you will miss every bit. Life is short, and so is childhood.
Also, appreciate your parents more. At some point, they had it rough too (you were no angel, ask your parents). Now in days so many people are neglecting their children for all of the wrong reasons. The pursuit of happiness does not have to be solely about monetary gains. It can and should come with being there for your children and raising them to be productive people. They are the legacy that you’ll leave behind. Keep up the good work, your children will thank you someday.
❤ Finesse,
Mommy of 2 Precious Gifts